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Anthony’s NotesA personal field guide
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Attractiveness

  • Manly Man (They say kindness and compassion)
    • Facial hair
    • Height
    • Masculine attributes
  • Would you want to have sex with you?
    • Physically attractive
  • Ability to demonstrate kindness
  • Ability to demonstrate excellence
  1. Signal resources
    1. Shit together
    2. Focused on progression
    3. Discipline
    4. Good job
    5. A vision
  2. Intellect
    1. Good decision making
    2. Best way to demonstrate intellect: Humor
      1. I’m laughing, im laughing, im naked
    3. Decisive
    4. Ability to communicate emotionally
      1. BUT not being too emotionally vulnerable to her
  3. Kindness
    1. Secret weapon
    2. Good person
    3. Treat people well
    4. Manner
    5. Follow up with people
  • Talk about your passions
  • Be into growth mindset and on improvement path
  • Show effort
  • Male Manners
    • Opening the door etc…
  • Protector (default)
    • Talk well about people behind their backs
    • Defend the vulnerable